The effort of pleasing everyone will lead you nowhere since it is impossible to make everyone around you happy with your limited time, energy and resource.
Eventually you need to choose whom to focus on and do some saving and dumping. Otherwise, if you evenly distribute your kindness, those who really appreciate you are not given enough of your attention because you grant your love and passion onto someone who don’t really care.
Thus being disliked is just as normal as being liked. It is not bad at all of being disliked since it represents that you have your own characteristics, mind, attitudes and insists. Being disliked and being liked are just yin and yang, the two blades of a sword and the bright and shadow of one existence, you.
—Negentropist.Z
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