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Woke up at 4AM this morning. The adjusting process takes time, believe in yourself and be patient.

You need to be patient while improving yourself and making positive changes. But you can’t procrastinate to care and say love to your loved ones.

—Negentropist. Z

saying no is the art of giving up

Saying no is not easy.

It’s not just about saying out a word at some circumstances. There are a lot of principles and life wisdom behind it.

One of them is that you can’t get all the nice things or items in the world including being liked by everyone for every moment of you, you have to give up something, including being liked.

You shouldn’t strive for being liked, you should strive for being respected. Being respected doesn’t mean always says yes. Counterintuitively, ONLY by saying no can you earn the respect not by saying yes.

You time is limited. If you don’t know how to give up, it means you don’t know where to focus and you are doomed miserable. It is the hard or dard side of you that makes people respect you, never your soft side and your smile.

It is not the art of rejecting, it is the art of choosing and giving up.

—Negentropist.Z