Sep13-Oct31
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don’t take miscommunication into bed
Disagreement is common and OK.
Be aggressive
This world is indifferent, neither nice nor hostile. Maybe most of the time, the small world around you is a little bit nicer than neutral.
But you can’t take that tiny nicer for granted. You can’t assume that people around will serve you and only do good to you.
The world may not be that depressing. But when you assume no one will initiate giving you what you want and you yourself start the first step or even do it by yourself, you may find the world turn surprisingly nicer to you than usual.
—Negentropist.Z
life is simple
Life is simple.
We are not as good at multitasking as we imagined. We hope to do things better and more efficiently well by thinking about multiple things at simultaneously or by doing multiple operations alternatively, which in reality undermines our efficiency. We are making life too complicated and heavy.
Believe it or not, our heart always know which one thing is the highest priority thing to be done. The just listen to your heart and do the one thing with all your passion, emotion, energy and focus. This is the most efficient way of living, which is also the most fruitful way.
We may not have the courage to start living single task, but I encourage you to give it a try. The you will see a world brand new.
Life is simple and efficient, so live simple and efficient.
—Negentropist.Z
If no goal, just enjoy every sec
Setting up goals is definitely helpful, but if you don’t have a goal, it is alright. You can still live the best out of you life: immerse yourself into every single second and work and fall forward, then you are already in your best form.
—Negentropist.Z
1st dream day
Got up at 0400 and go to bed at 2300, a day I lived at my best.
Now working towards a second dream day.
—Negentropist.Z
No guessing and speak up
We all have puzzles, concerns, worries, all negative emotions and so on. We spend most of the time on guessing about others’ responses or answers.
But those guessing are pointless and a waste of time.
Communicate with people, get their answers. Although their responses may not be good as you expected, this at least saves your time.
No guessing and speak up.
—Negentropist.Z
Tell others your goal
Goals motivate me a lot.
Tell my goals to people related even helps motivate me. Others who know my goals know better about how to help me achieve my goals. People always want to help but cannot help if they don’t know what you want. It is for your benefit to make it clear and easy for others to help you.
—Negentropist.Z
upward and downward momentum
There are two types of momentum in life, either upward (positive) and downward (negative).
When we analyze an event or a situation, we focus too much on the current status and omit the momentum, which might be more significantly influential in the long run.
When we pay attention to refine life, we bring in negentropy. And a better refined life has a stronger resistance to chaos or we say entropy. The decay of a refined life takes longer time. And we are always inputting negentropy, the life is in a upward momentum.
When we ignore the constant effort to refine life, entropy comes in. And the quality of life deteriorates faster and faster. We are weaker and weaker to resist entropy. The life is in a downward momentum.
Of course we are human being and not perfect, so we are actually living in a mix of the two momentums. What we need is simply to introduce negentropy into life to become be affected more by the positive momentum, which is the main mission of this blog.
—Negentropist.Z